So September is National Self Improvement Month, and I’m working on becoming a morning person. If you haven’t watched my video on my Facebook page, be sure to and join in with me on 21 days of doing something to improve yourself. Below I’m posting The part of Micheal Hyatt’s blog that gives the steps that I will be trying to follow. I will be adding a few but we will start here. Let me know what you are going to do this month to improve yourself.
“1. Change your story. So many people say, “I’m not a morning person,” as though it were an immutable fact. Could it be that there is no biological evidence for this? What if you discovered that this was merely a preference and years of practice? What would happen if you changed the story and began telling yourself, “I am a morning person.” Usually, we adjust our behavior to fit our story.
2. Determine what’s at stake. Whenever I want to change anything in my life or accomplish a significant goal, I start by articulating to myself why it is important. Write down on a sheet of paper what becoming a morning person would make possible. Then, conversely, write down what is at risk if you don’t. This is great to do when you are motivated; however, its real value is to keep you going when you’ve lost that first blush of enthusiasm.
3. Plan your sleep. Like changing any other habit, you have to set yourself up for success. You probably can’t keep going to bed at the same time you are now and get by on less sleep. Your body will resist. Instead, if you know you need seven hours of sleep, and you know you’d like to get up at 5:00 a.m., calculate backwards to determine what time you must be asleep.
4. Use an alarm. After years of waking up early, this has become an ingrained habit for me. I wake up at 5:00 a.m. without an alarm. It is amazing how consistent this is—sometimes when I don’t want it to be. But if you haven’t been a morning person until now, you will likely need to use an alarm. It’s part of training yourself mentally and physically. Whether you use the alarm on your smart phone or a dedicated one, put it on the other side of the room—so you have to get up to turn it off.
5. Turn on all the lights. The environment provides subtle clues to your body, so it knows how to respond. When it gets dark, your body naturally begins preparing itself for sleep (unless you have conditioned it otherwise). When it gets light, you naturally begin waking up. If you want to jumpstart this process and signal to your body that it is time to get up, simulate full daylight. Turn on all the lights in the room.
6. Set out your clothes. If you are groggy when you get up, the fewer decisions you need to make the better. So, make the decision about what to wear the night before. If you get dressed immediately, it is also less likely that you will take off your clothes and get back into your bed. Since I exercise in the morning, I put out my workout clothes the night before, including my shoes. Then in the morning I just put them on and lace them up!
7. Drink a cup of coffee. At various times, I have eliminated coffee from my diet. However, after considerable research, I’m convinced it is beneficial in moderation. (Here’s a great summary of recent findings.) Regardless, it is definitely beneficial for me first thing in the morning. I use a Cuisinart SS-700 to brew mine.
8. Enlist an accountability partner.Whether it is a mentor or a peer, find someone who understands the value of accountability. Explain your goal, tell him or her why it is important to you, and then give them permission to hold your feet to the fire. When I was in college, a friend and I wanted to get up early to study for a class. So we called one another at 5:00 a.m. to make sure the other was awake. We did pretty well in the class too.
9. Commit to twenty-one days. I recommend you become a morning person for three weeks and then decide whether or not this will become a permanent part of your life. Research says it usually takes longer than this to form a habit, but three weeks should give you enough to go on. If not, you at least gave it a try. If so, you now have a new habit that can serve you well for the rest of your life. ” -Credit:Micheal Hyatt
Clients Say the Darndest Thing…. These are the most common things I’ve heard over time from clients. So if you have ever say or thought these, you are not alone!!
(**I MENTION BODY PARTS IN THIS VIDEO, SO YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED)
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So I’m at VBS and I’m sitting with my kids waiting for one of the other groups to leave. I looked up and this little boy around 9 is staring at me. I don’t think anything of it, but then he starts walking towards me and stops in front of me.
BOY: “What’s your name?!”
BOY: (whispering) “I know who you are?”
ME: “You do?”
BOY: (leaning in) “Yes and I won’t tell anyone”
(So now I’m very confused.)
BOY: “You are from ‘Inside Out’, but I won’t tell anyone”
ME: “Ok, don’t tell.”
He then smiles and walks away, and I’m still confused. 😉
Just finished spray tanning a client and as she was turning for me to check her tan.
Client: ‘So do you spray tan yourself?’
Me: (Standing there a bit confused by the questions so I answered politely) ‘I don’t spray tan’
Client: (shaking her head) ‘Oh, my of course not, I’m just trying to make small talk, since I’m standing here mostly naked.’
Me: ‘It’s ok, that’s not even the strangest question, I’ve been asked.’